Sorry if this is a little long winded, I’m going to try to write out everything so I don’t forget!
It’s finally time I get to let everyone in on a little secret that’s been in the works for a couple months now. As you may know, I wanted to wait to find out the sex of Baby Wagner, but Husbandy was adamant about finding out. Since I didn't see him budging on this decision and we had pretty much agreed we would open an envelope to reveal the sex on our anniversary in May, I decided to throw a surprise sex reveal for Husbandy’s 30th birthday.
As plans developed I started to get so excited about the surprise. Just thinking about seeing Husbandy’s face when he realized what was happening made it seem like the date would never come.
Here is what Husbandy knew: I sent out invitations for Husbandy’s 30th birthday party at the beginning of February. For a few years now he has wanted to play Whirly Ball, but we have never actually done it. Since I knew this was a big year, the big 3-0, I rented out a court for 25 people. After playing Whirly Ball, we wanted to invite everyone to come over for dinner, drinks, and to just hangout. Husbandy also knew I would be leaving Whirly Ball early to come back to the house to start dinner. Whirly Ball is a combination of lacrosse, basketball, and bumper cars. Seeing as, well, I’m pregnant, I knew I wouldn't be playing due to the bumper cars, so I figured this also gave me an excuse to leave early.
Here’s what Husbandy didn't know: In mid-February I sent out emails to family and friends saying: “we are celebrating Husbandy’s 30th birthday on March 2nd. A few friends will be heading to Whirly Ball and then back to the house around 5:30, it's then that Husbandy will find out his birthday party is also a sex reveal!” This is when things started to get exciting and stressful for me. I so badly wanted this to be a surprise so I was constantly worrying about someone accidentally saying something to Husbandy. Not only someone else, but me too! There were so many times I would just about say something and then had to catch myself thinking, wait, he doesn't know that’s happening. Luckily, I conquered pregnancy brain every time!
Leading up to the day I started to prepare the house for lots of guests. Luckily, Husbandy knew people would be coming over to our house, so he helped a lot with cleaning and sprucing up the backyard. I also started to stock up on food. I planned on feeding everyone, which ended up being about 50 people, so I feel like every time I went to the store I bought pasta and pasta sauce. Husbandy knew I was planning on making dinner for what he thought would be about 25 people that night, so it wasn't too unusual that I was buying so much of this stuff. As mentioned before, we had an envelope with a sonogram picture telling us the sex of Baby Wagner hanging on our fridge from our February 21st appointment. At the time I bought the card to put the picture in, I also bought an identical one so when I needed to take the card down later, there would be one to replace it. Lastly, I commissioned a very creative friend of mine to make a cute box to hold pink/blue balloons we would release. I picked this up the week of the reveal and stored it at my sister’s house.

Anyway, here is how the day went down:
I woke up decently early that morning because I had a lot to get done. First thing on the agenda was to switch out the card on the fridge with the sono picture with the extra one before Husbandy woke up. The next was to make banana bread. I’m not sure why I wanted to do this so badly, but you’re allowed to bring food to Whirly Ball, so I wanted to provide some type of snack. Seeing as banana bread sounded really good to me, I decided on it pretty quickly. I’m glad I started early, because breads take a while to bake. While that was cooking, we finished the clean-up, took showers, and got ready.
The only thing in the back of my mind the entire morning was that I needed to get the reveal box to Party City that morning to have it filled with balloons. With the bread taking longer than I thought it would and Husbandy running to Home Depot, my time was running short. Finally, around 1:00, I got out of the house to go to my sister’s and pick up the box. The box actually didn't have a bottom, so we decided to put the balloons in black trash bags, and figure out how to get them in the box later. I rushed to Party City, told them what was going on, and gave them the card. I hung out in the back of the store for what seemed like a very long time before I stopped an employee and asked if the coast was clear. I then headed back to my sister’s to drop off the balloons. It was so weird knowing I had either blue or pink balloons right behind me!
The whole trip took about an hour, so by the time I got back to the house it was time to leave for Whirly Ball. I knew Husbandy had to know something was up, as I just spent the last hour doing a mystery errand and then came back to the house with nothing! Haha. I just hoped he figured it had something to do with his birthday. Anyway, we got everything packed up and headed out. Let the fun begin!
I got to watch a few games of Whirly Ball before I had to leave. It was so fun watching everyone play. Lucky for the people that were playing, some who we thought would be at Whirly Ball, didn't show, so only two people had to sit out each game. That’s a lot of Whirly Ball in two hours!

Around 3:45 I left to meet my mom, sister, Aidan :), and Aunt Carol at the house to get everything set up, start cooking, and let guests in as they arrived. I am so so so thankful for these three people cause they brought drinks, salad, bread, and cheesecake, helped everything run smoothly and kept me from getting too overwhelmed. One thing we needed to be sure to do was stuff the box with the balloons. My sister was nice enough to volunteer, knowing she would probably find out the sex before the big reveal. My mom ended up helping, but she said they tried to do everything with their eyes shut to keep the sex a surprise. I’m not 100% sure how successful they were, but they certainly did not let me know what they did or didn't see.

Friends and family started to arrive at 5:00. Husbandy called to let me know they were leaving at about 5:10. Yea, yea, yea!! I, however, failed to mention to everyone Husbandy was on his way, so when he walked in no one was really ready. Hahaha People just randomly yelled surprise! Either way, Husbandy’s face was pretty confused. He came up to me, and I took the envelope off the fridge and handed it to him. He was a little hesitant cause he figured this would have the sono picture in it, and didn't really want to open it without everyone knowing..but I convinced him it was ok. Here is what the card said:

After waiting a little while to let people get to the house, we had the big reveal! I had everyone who thought we were having a boy stand on one side of the yard and everyone who thought we were having a girl stand on the other. The whole point of this was to take a picture, but then I forgot to actually do that. Maybe someone else got one?! I was definitely caught up in the moment and too excited to think about practical things. Luckily, a few other people did think to take a video. And here it is!!

A girl, a girl, we are having a sweet baby girl! All along, I've just had some feeling we were having a girl. I've had two dreams about the sex of our Baby, and in both it was a girl. Also, coming up with a girl’s name was so easy for us; we've known it for a while. We actually still don’t have a boys named picked out. This week we finally got it narrowed down to four we both like, but since we had such a long time before we would actually know the sex, Husbandy wasn't interested in rushing the decision, no matter how much I brought it up. Now we know it doesn't even matter (this time around). We are now also able to pray for our precious baby girl, Reese Annalee Wagner, by name. We ask that you do the same!
The rest of the night was filled with dinner, dessert, and fun. My sister did give Husbandy my favorite of all his birthday gifts….I of course cried when I saw it:
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| Guests |
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| Aunt Rebecca's present! |
Later that night, Nancy told Brooklyn there is a baby in my tummy and her name is Reese. It was so sweet, when asked where Reese is she would pat my stomach. Reese actually sounds a lot like Brooklyn’s dog’s name Ace…so when she says Ace it kind of sounds like Reese. Very cute. Reese is a very lucky girl cause I’m sure she’ll get lots of hand me downs from Brooklyn as she was also born in July, and Aidan will be her protector as they will most likely be in the same grade!
Husbandy and I were both sad his side of the family couldn't be in Texas for the reveal. On Sunday we sent his parents and sister the video of it though. Mrs Wagner was sure we were having a boy, but very excited about another granddaughter, the same goes for Mr Wagner. Amanda was also very excited about having another niece. Won’t it be sweet to watch Evalyn and Reese play together?
I just can’t believe we now know what we are having. I don’t think it’s all sunk in yet. I actually do feel like I can connect with Reese more now. I think this was ultimately a great decision for Husbandy and I. On Sunday, I couldn't help by cry every time I saw a little girl. And when we saw one give a great big hug to her grandpa in Mass, game over.
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| What we woke up to the next day |
There it is, that’s the story! Hopefully, I didn't leave out any details, so I can share how it all happened with Reese one day. I love you, precious little girl!